A couple of years ago, Kate Monro quit her job in marketing so she could spend her time talking to people about losing their virginity. The book manages to demonstrate the huge variety of modern sexuality while also — unsurprisingly, given it's about people dropping their V-cards — making for a pretty fascinating read. What compelled you to start asking people about how they lost it?
On Monday, I talked a little about the toxic culture surrounding masculinity and how it hurts men. Today, I want to start the conversation to help dismantle it. And one of the best places to start is to talk about sex.
But does that still hold true when you lose it at a shockingly young age? And how does doing so affect the rest of your life? We asked three men it happened to.
For many people, it does not turn out exactly as planned. If your first time was not how you imagined it or if you are nervous about it happening, we want to ensure you that you are not alone! Although having sex for the first time is a big milestone in your life, we want to urge you not to stress about it being perfect or feel pressured to do it.
Not everyone has the best time the first time they have sex. Losing your virginity is a big deal. It's not uncommon to have all sorts of romantic and exciting fantasies of how your first time will play out.
So, I decided to reach out to guys and see what their own stories were on losing their virginity. I asked around at different colleges to guys who'd be willing to share with me their intimate stories anonymously of sticking it in for the first time, so here are their own dirty details. Turns out, losing one's virginity is mostly just awkward all the way around, whether you're a guy or a girl.
Scene looked like a time lapse of a wilting plant. She was kind and patient, though. A few minutes later and some more heavy petting I was ready to disappoint her properly.
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Ah, the first time—be it good, bad, or somewhere in between, there's only ever one. You probably know a lot of your besties' first time stories, but ever wonder how the other half fares? We asked guys to share their first-time experiences—and you might be surprised by a few of them.